Friday, July 30, 2010

WHY MUST IT ALWAYS BE SO DIFFICULT TO.....!

HOW MANY TIMES HAVE YOU SAID OR HEARD OTHERS SAY THESE WORDS "WHY MUST IT ALWAYS BE SO DIFFICULT TO.....!

HUMANS ARE THE MOST INTERESTING ANIMALS ON THE PLANET BECAUSE WE SPEND SO MUCH TIME MAKING THINGS SO MUCH MORE DIFFICULT THEN THEY HAVE TO BE. AN ANIMAL HAS SPECIFIC NEEDS, THEY EAT, SLEEP, REPRODUCE AND FIGHT TO BE THE ALFA IN THEIR FAMILY.

THEY DON'T SPEND THEIR DAYS IN THE CAR, ON THE COMPUTER, SENDING AND RECEIVING EMAILS, WATCHING TELEVISION AND AVOIDING PEOPLE THAT MIGHT COMPLICATE OUR LIVES.
BY COMPARISON AN ANIMAL HAS PRETTY BORING EXISTENCE DON'T YOU THINK??
YET WE ARE FASCINATED BY THEM AND WISH OUR LIVES COULD BE SO SIMPLE!

SO MY QUESTION TO YOU IS WHY IS YOUR LIFE SO COMPLICATED? WHY IS IT SO HARD TO STOP SMOKING, LOOSE WEIGHT, BE FEARLESS, SLOW DOWN............!
COULD IT BE THAT YOU NEED LIFE TO BE DIFFICULT SO YOU CAN FEEL WORTHY? HOW ELSE WOULD YOU BE ABLE TO COMPLAIN ABOUT YOUR LOT IN LIFE IF EVERYTHING WAS SIMPLE?

I HAVE RECENTLY HAD THE OPPORTUNITY TO OBSERVE AN INDIVIDUAL THAT HAS HAD A LIFE OF PRIVILEGE FROM A VERY YOUNG AGE, WAS HANDED AND RUNS A SUCCESSFUL BUSINESS AND YET IS UNABLE TO ENJOY HIS LOT IN LIFE. HE SPENDS MOST OF HIS TIME FINDING WAYS TO MAKE THINGS MORE DIFFICULT FOR HIMSELF, HIS EMPLOYEES, HIS CLIENTS AND ANYONE ASSOCIATED WITH THE BUSINESS.
HE TOTALLY DISRUPTS HIS HAPPINESS AND SEEMS MORE AT HOME WITH MISERY! AS I OBSERVED HIM, I COULD NOT HELP WONDER WHY? WHY MUST IT ALWAYS BE SO DIFFICULT?

AS A HYPNOTHERAPIST MY EXPERIENCE TELLS ME THAT WE EQUATE ADVERSITY WITH SELF WORTH AND BECAUSE OF THIS WE FEEL MORE AT HOME WITH MISERY THEN HAPPINESS. I BELIEVE THAT SOME OF US HAVE TROUBLE BELIEVING THAT WE ARE WORTHY OF HAPPINESS!!! WE PERCEIVE OURSELVES LESS VALUABLE IN THE EYES OF OTHERS UNLESS WE HAVE SOMETHING TO COMPLAIN ABOUT.

WELL FOLKS THE TIME HAS COME TO SIMPLIFY AND BECOME HAPPY!!! LETS ALL SIMPLIFY OUR FOOD, OUR CLOTHES, OUR CONSUMPTION, OUR FEARS, OUR LIVES!

WHERE AND HOW DO WE START DOING THIS YOU ASK?
JUST GO SEE YOUR FRIENDLY NEIGHBOURHOOD HYPNOTIST! WE LOVE TO SIMPLIFY EVERYTHING AND HELP EVERYONE ACCOMPLISH POSITIVE CHANGES IN THEIR LIVES.

WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? GO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIVES!!! YOU WILL THANK ME FOR IT!